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Adlerian Parenting Experience
和孩子一起快乐成长 By A.P.EX. Learning 1. Introduction of the power of Positive Reinforcement 2. Does Carrot and Stick works? 3. How we get here? a. Why it’s difficult? Why doesn’t work b. Modern Life Challenges c. Misconception on the motivation mechanism d. How we all raised （原生家庭） e. Academic excellence 4. The goal of parenting/education a. Three pillars b. Talent vs. Skill c. Involving both parents d. Shaping value system e. Growth Mindset f. Confidence g. Focus h. Intrinsic motivation i. The path to purpose j. Value of learning k. Capacity of understanding l. Reading i. Curiosity ii. Writing m. Chinese Identity n. Positive attitude o. Empathy p. Judgement i. Mental Models q. Infinite game 5. Critical Thinking Parents raise Critical Thinking kids a. Why critical thinking b. Cause and consequence c. Root Cause 6. Anxiety don’t have to be there a. Gardener vs. Carpenter b. Complex Theory c. Parent emotion control d. ABCDE method 7. What is Emotional Coaching? a. Typical parenting mistakes b. Teaching emotional rules c. Aware of emotions d. Properly communicate emotion e. Mission at different stage 8. Positive Discipline a. From psychology research to main street b. The aim of behavior i. Four misbehaviors c. Behavior is determined by beliefs d. Long term vs. Short term e. Importance of Teaching Life Skills f. Not Punitive and Not Permissive g. Kindness and Firmness at the same time h. Mutual Respect i. Encouragement j. Mistakes are opportunity to learn k. Social Equality l. Social Interest 9. GROW communication model 10. Double core communication for rebellion 11. Mental health 12. Typical situation handling a. Not listen b. Excessive force c. Siblings conflict d. Homework e. Self-control/Follow through f. Focus/Distraction g. Adversity h. Addiction i. Efficiency j. Responsibility k. Passive attitude l. Bully m. Puppy love |
Tony Zhang
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